HAVING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Well, I have to be the strong one, and say I am sorry if I offend you with my words. I am not sorry for what I said, but I am sorry if you were offended. You may not understand why I am trying to lead a “positive” lifestyle in every area of my life. My attitude determines most of what I will experience each day.Yet, it is something that I find easy to neglect. I want to be someone others WANT to be around, because I lift their energy, attitude, and spirit.

We can achieve a serene state of mind by exploring healthy ways to combat negative energy. Anxiety and nervousness can build inside us and affect our actions and our state of mind. Rather than allowing our negative energy to push us into nonstop activities, we can choose to release it in conscious, healthy ways. Turning our thoughts to less nerve-racking manners will also have a positive effect on our bodies. We then feel calm and peaceful as we go about our daily activities. Burning off negative energy will help to regain inner balance and calm.

Having a positive attitude is imperative to being successful and manifesting our goals.

A fully functioning positive attitude comprises TWO essential components.

     1.  Willingness to look at yourself and a willingness to change.

     2.  Being open to new ideas and concepts

There is more to life than what we see. Each of these components plays an integral part in our overall disposition on a daily basis.  Doubts and fears can create cracks in the foundation of these components. These cracks negatively impact our ability to generate positive energy,  We all have difficulty continually demonstrating a fully positive attitude throughout an entire day.

     

Straight From My Heart

MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM MY HEART!

As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own BEST friend.

I have  asked GOD to give me a more 

COMPASSIONATE HEART 

A TONGUE TO SPEAK POSITIVE ABOUT OTHERS

I have the desire to STOP 
COMPLAINING
GOSSIPING
HAVING NEGATIVE CONVERSATIONS ABOUT OTHERS  

I have seen too many dear relatives and friends leave this world, too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

I know I am not PERFECT and I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. I eventually remember the important things. Sure, over the years, my heart has been broken. How can MY heart not break, when I have lose a loved one, or when my children suffers, or even when life is so full of Negative Energy. But, MY BROKEN HEART has given me STRENGTH, UNDERSTANDING, and  most of all

FAITH!!

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As I have gotten older, it is easier for me to keep a POSITIVE ATTITUDE and to CARE LESS about what other people think of ME. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong. I like being older. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. My point is, I can not undo the past all I can do is live each day as it come and not worry about tomorrow.

MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM MY HEART!

"Life Is Only What You Make Of It"

Vernessie

LET GO THROUGH LOVE

I am letting go and praying each and every individual follow and create a deeper connection with each other through love. My desire is to reach out in a positive manner. Our mind-set and actions have more to do with the quality of our experiences than we realize. By making our interactions with each other positive ones, will begin to attract more positive actions into our lives. Our willingness to be open and generous with our circle of loved ones and friends causes them to act similarly toward us, and together we create an atmosphere of support, gratitude, and encouragement.

The evolution of one’s own soul is a process. It’s not a quick fix. It’s not a five day workshop. It’s a lifetime process where we let go, discover and then allow for our futures to come into existence. Through connecting to our soul, to our collective heart, we can get into agreement with our deepest values and our life mission. We can then allow for the realities which are always available to us to unfold. As we all have heard, “LOVE” is the answer. Indeed it is, but it's not just the loving of our good self, of our good qualities. True love is embracing our dark impulses, our imperfections, our mistakes and our heartache. That is when one reconnects and experiences the love that is truly the answer “GOD’S LOVE”.

It is my daily mission to find new ways to inspire ALL individuals to go on this lifelong journey to clean up their past, to forgive themselves for their flaws and shortcomings, to make peace with their humanity, to open up to their divinity and allow themselves to be guided by a power greater than themselves “GOD’S LOVE”. I must practice what I am preaching; get in agreement and take responsibility for the values that I stand for. Within me, there are voices that has provided me with all the answers that I need to heal my deepest wounds, to transcend my limitations, to overcome my obstacles or challenges, and to see where my soul is longing to go.

I am understanding the relationship between my inner world, where these voices and this wisdom reside, and the outer world is the thing that radically altered my life. Having come into understanding, this relationship is one of the things that distinguishes me from others, as do my awe and respect for both the inner and the outer, the “ego” created and the “soul inspired”, the human and the divine, the “false self” and the “true self”. It is the return to wholeness and the integration of all we are that has inspired and woken me up to seek more understanding doing it GOD’S WAY through LOVE.

Striving to Follow My Resolution For 2014

My resolution for 2014  is to show more COMPASSION. I am embarking into a cleansing process with an attitude of LOVE. I have vow to promote positive energy in all areas of life. I will keep my mind and heart open to motivate others to aim for goals and ward off any obstacles in their path. This vow will call up energy and strength of my Faith in GOD. A voice told me  NO MORE EXCUSES !!.

I WILL STAND ON:

Proverbs 3:5-6

5 Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all (MY) your heart and mind and do not rely on (MY) your own insight or understanding.

6 In all (MY) your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain (MY) your paths.

I told myself that this year 2014 ,

Proverbs 16:3
3 I would - Commit to the LORD whatever (I) you do, and (MY) your plans will succeed.

Psalm 85:8

Amplified Bible (AMP)

8 I will listen [with expectancy] to what God the Lord will say, for He will speak peace to His people, to His saints (those who are in right standing with Him)--but let them not turn again to [self-confident] folly.

"Life Is Only What You Make Of It"

Vernessie